If your partner does not leave the house in a domestic or family violence situation, it’s important to prioritise your safety and take steps to protect yourself. Here are some suggestions:
- Contact Support Services: Reach out to a support worker or a domestic violence hotline, such as the Domestic Violence Line (1800 656 463) or 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732). They can help you create a safety plan and provide guidance on your next steps.
- Stay Safe: Ensure that you and your children are safe. This might involve staying with a trusted friend or family member or seeking emergency accommodation through services like Safe Steps or the Orange Door.
- Apply for an Intervention Order: If you haven’t already, consider applying for an Intervention Order (also known as an Apprehended Violence Order or AVO) to legally prevent your partner from contacting or approaching you.
- Seek Legal Advice: Consult with a lawyer who specializes in family violence to understand your legal rights and options. They can help you navigate the legal system and take appropriate action.
- Document Evidence: Keep a record of any incidents of violence or threats, including dates, times, and descriptions. This documentation can be useful if you need to report to the Victoria Police and take legal action.
- Plan Your Exit: If you decide to leave, plan your exit carefully. Arrange transportation in advance, pack essential documents (e.g., identification, birth certificates, financial records), and inform trusted friends or family members of your plans.
Remember, your safety is the top priority. It’s important to take these steps one at a time and seek support from professionals who can help you through this difficult situation.